Showing posts with label Observation. Show all posts
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1 February 2020

When Becoming Nothing is an Improvement

Short article to ponder by Francis Frangipane. What is your reaction as you read this? Agree? Disagree? Vehemently against? Willing to consider?

In the beginning, the earth was formless and void, but that did not deter the Almighty. He looked into the fathomless depth of its darkness and concluded, "All it needs is light!" Likewise, in the beginning of our spiritual lives, we also are "formless and void" and God, just as confidently, is still saying, "All they need is a little light!" Remember: it's the Lord's responsibility to create and our responsibility to submit to His creating.

The Lord only needs three things to fashion life. First, He needs a "nothing." The Almighty always begins His great, creative works with a "nothing" (this is very important because this is where we come in.) Then, His Spirit needs to be hovering over the "nothing." And, finally, He needs His Word, which is the "something" He's going to put in the "nothing's" place.

God has no difficulty at all creating something out of nothing. The only obstacle He faces is when the nothing doesn't know it is nothing but instead thinks it's something. At that point God has to break it back down to nothing before it is good for anything. (Are you still following me?) Paul said this better than I when he wrote,
"If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself" (Gal. 6:3).

Even as Christians, if we think we are "something” so that we look down on others or we are wise in our own eyes, we deceive ourselves! The only something there truly is, is God.

If we know we are nothing without God, and we can simultaneously recognize that the grace He has worked in us is so we can bless others. If we have such an attitude, then there is no limit to how much God can use us. Our knowing we are nothing is a great attainment in His eyes. For then our energies are no longer spent exalting or defending ourselves but in clinging to Christ and relying upon Him.

You see, God is not offended by chaos. There will be times when, like the pre-creation universe, you discover your life seems "formless and void." Do not be over-concerned. When you discover there is "chaos" in the deepest part of you, do not fret. You are at a new beginning. It has taken the Lord quite a while helping your to appreciate your "nothingness."

So, let all who know they are nothings rejoice: you are miles ahead of everyone who thinks they are something! The proud, who consider themselves something special, do not deal with the lightless regions of chaos in their souls; they simply hide them. But if we are transparent with our need, the Spirit and Word can work in us to bring life and order. All we need do is to open up and confess our nothingness to the Holy Spirit.

"For God, who said, 'Light shall shine out of darkness,' is the One who has shone in our hearts to give the Light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ" (2 Cor. 4:6).
This is the very way our great Creator creates. He causes light to shine out of darkness! The only thing He requires of us is to be honest about the darkness---to confess it instead of hiding it.
"Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them . . . But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light" (Eph. 5:11,13).

When darkness is exposed to the light, it becomes light. In fact, the very reason our darkness becomes visible is because God shines His light on it. If you persevere---if you continually thrust your darkness into the light of God's grace and power---that light will ultimately shine out from within you. Your darkness will actually become light.

Beloved, if you know you are nothing in yourself, you're a prime candidate to become something in God! Consider again Paul’s view of himself:
"If anyone else has a mind to put confidence in the flesh, I far more: circumcised the eighth day, of the nation of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; as to the Law, a Pharisee; as to zeal, a persecutor of the church; as to the righteousness which is in the Law, found blameless. But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ" (Phil. 3:4-7).

To become nothing in ourselves, to be excavated of pride and of being consumed by our attainments and pedigree, is part of the path to sonship. Paul actually saw all his human, religious attainments as obstacles. Certainly, in time the Lord used all of the elements of Paul's life, but not before Paul gave them up to the Lord.

John the Baptist said, "He must increase, but I must decrease" (John 3:30). You see, though self-confidence dies, God-confidence comes to life!

So, do not fret. You can admit that you have areas within that are dead and dark. Romans 4:17 says, "God . . . gives life to the dead and calls into being that which does not exist." God gives LIFE to the dead. Do you sometimes feel dead? Good. You're qualified to get God's life! Look to God. Trust Him as your Creator. Do not fear when you discover you are nothing. There is a time when becoming nothing is an improvement.


28 December 2016

Positioning

There are many apps which allow image editing. 

They enable the user to turn a casual, common image into something personal, into something meaningful.

However, when someone takes half an hour just to position to words "Birthday Blessings!!" in the right place for this image, you know the person is both particular and much into detail.


I kid you not. Half an hour.....

28 October 2015

Twist and Turn

I had a visitor. Someone I hadn't seen for decades. Literally so. 

After dinner, she insists on teaching me something. The robust growth of pandan leaves in my garden had caught her eye. She went out, cut off some of the leaves and showed me with twists and turns how to make a rose. 

Voila!
My friend is obviously someone who wont take No for an answer. She is also someone with an eye for detail. Interesting. I am tempted to profile her.....

9 September 2015

Uniquely You

I just love doing training and facilitating the DiSC! It's my aim to make learning fun, and having fun activities a great way to illustrate a point. 

Like this for instance. I had a small group for a change. I did my usual introduction and led them to an activity.

I was fascinated to see how this turned out. Four totally different types of paperwork. 

And that is why I had entitled my short talk "Uniquely You" also known as "Who do you think you are?"

23 July 2015

A Certain Kind....

It takes a certain kind of person who would drive two hours to get to the spot desired.
A certain kind of person who would brave the cold and the winds just to get to the destination.
One who is not deterred by steep steps and slopes.
One who is not held back by rules and regulations.

Indeed, one who would go where it is forbidden to go - into the caves and caverns which could collapse from the weight of melting snow.
One who would go further when others have turned back - just to touch a real glacier.
One who would think of the consequences - and yet still be willing to pay the price.

What a person this is.
He will get the job done.
She will be frustrated when obstacles don't shift.
He will be adamant it can be done, even when others begin to doubt.
She will insist that it is doable, even if others are persuaded otherwise.

Who is this person?

The High D. Tinged with C.... Projects. Driven. Pioneering. Dogmatic.

19 September 2012

The Impatient and Show-Off

He came from out of the blue. 
He weaved from one lane to another. 
He didn't use his indicators. 
He didn't seem to think it matter who was in front, behind or beside him.
He seemed lost in world of his own, anxious to get to his destination.
Does this make his behaviour an impatient D? Or was he a showy I? 
Either way, he was dangerous. Both to himself and to others on the road.

19 August 2012

The Tape Type

Walking along the short stretch to the washrooms, this cream coloured object caught my eye. It was a hand-made ball. A D-i-Y of sorts. Made from tape. Masking tape to be precise. That it was of a size bigger than my Nokia e71 was impressive. That it was made in one day was intriguing. I had to stop. Don't you agree? I mean, what sort of person would do this and why?
Turns out that the person responsible was bored of picking up masking tape that day. And more importantly, thought this was the most practical and logical way to creatively collect up the tape without messing up any other place.

You guessed it - the classic C. Methodical. Logical. Precise. Calculating. Does things to the end.

Cleared things up very nicely!

1 November 2010

Boldness

The cat shows the way!

From within the house.

To outside of the house.

To the porch.
From the porch to the outer side of the porch.

And from there to the gate.
Just outside. Boldness.

In us humans? That's a D trait. Not afraid of the dogs who can smell her scent. Cool cat.

10 August 2010

Audit

This is taken from a site I know. Can you imagine the responses ?

The High D would study, critique and work out how to increase traffic to the site. And act on it.

The High I would squeal with joy, delighted with the results. And carry on as is.

The High C would evaluate and probably work out an average per month, per week and per day hit. Perhaps even get another widget which would do the analysis for him/her.

The High S? No squeals or loud expressions of any sort. Just a glad smile and a steady-as-she-goes attitude....

Can you see them?

7 August 2010

To be a Follower

The "D" resists following.

Often finds reasons to critique.

There are flaws and faults.

Many areas that need improving.

To bring about change for the better, total involvement, yes, even take over, is necessary.

The "D" finds it hard to follow.

More often leads. Frequently takes command.

Unless.....

Just unless.....

It's another "D".

Then the "D" will follow more easily.

15 July 2010

Indecision

What do you do when you can't decide?

Oh, I am not talking about life and death situation. I mean things like which dress or outfit to wear, or what time is best to meet up, and where should we gather for a cuppa.

Do you tend to talk about it? It is as if the more you verbalize it, the more clear it somehow becomes.

Some others I know won't say a word till it's all a done thing.

Which are you?

10 July 2010

A Certain Kind

No training. No exercise. No preparations. Just a gung-ho attitude, a go-for-it style. That's the D. And that's what got someone through a 7 kilometre sunset charity run.
Great fun for the D who loves challenges.

6 July 2010

Willing to Goof Around

In public of course.

It doesn't matter who is watching.

When the mood hits, anything goes.
Just to have fun.

The High I.....

30 June 2010

Thwarted Responses

So you are thwarted.
So you are unable to do what you want to do.
So you cant have it your way.
So it didn't go according to your plan.
So it isn't what you had hoped for.

What is your response?

The high D presses on anyway.
The high C goes away to analyze and figure out what went wrong.
The high S might cry quietly.
The high I will rant and tell someone, anyone and maybe do something he/she with hindsight will regret - apart from all the ranting.

10 May 2010

It Takes All Sorts

She had been invited for a meal. As far as I knew, they were not going dutch - her friend was going to pay.

Whilst her friend enjoyed her meal, she insisted that her meat was underdone and sent the plate back. Then she commented on the cold vegetables.

Finally she reiterated her disappointment to both the owner and the owner's spouse.

Much to the embarrassment of her friend who had thought it would be a treat.

The High D/C insisted on making her presence felt and opinion known. Regardless of the feelings of her High C/S friend who intensely disliked drawing attention to their table.

Defusing a potential situation required tremendous tact and self control. Which the owner DID exhibit. A classic case to answering wrath softly. Totally disarmed her. Absolutely silenced her.

I had much to learn.

30 March 2010

What Kind of Man?

He was fearless.

Not only did he break the rules, he appeared to be scoffing at them.
Unconcerned that other drivers were observing him, he appeared to be relishing the attention.

Makes you wonder the sort of personality this one has.... certainly not an S!

Self-Profiling

Classic.

She was who she was and totally unapologetic about it.

Fitted the description to a T.

I wish I could say more.... but she might be reading this and I would not want to incur her wrath.

That said, I am sure you know what profile I am referring to!

22 March 2010

Persistence

Week after week, day after day, different and same methods tried.

The computer did not seem to want to respond in the expected manner. Most frustrating for some. For others, like this person, it was a challenge to find the right solution. Time did not matter. In fact, this was a task that could not be rushed. There was a process of elimination to go through.
"Try again" the sign said. And so he did.

Would he succeed?

He has to.

He is a high "C"

13 March 2010

Organizing

It takes a certain kind of person to sort out the details of the master plan.

But it takes another kind of person to make sure that the master plan is executed.

Hence this room took a lot longer to clear than it ought to have!
Needed that High D to step in.... but the High D refused to interfere ... interesting group dynamics.

22 February 2010

Meet Derek

When you feel you are stuck in a rut, what do you do?

What if you think there are only limited choices in life?

I like this guy and the stuff he comes up with. Here's his opening paragraph:-

Lately I've been helping a lot of friends with decisions. The common theme I've found is that they thought they had only two options.

That's not a decision. That's a self-created dilemma! The way out is to realize there are always more than two options!

Have I piqued your interest? Go check him out. A D for sure. With some C.